By Sophia Deschler RN, BSN, RN | BSN
Updated on September 29, 2023
Published on September 4, 2023
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It can take some serious self-discipline to make yourself go to bed early. Many people feel like the evenings are their only “me” time. For this reason, it’s easy to stay up late, missing out on precious hours of rest.
You may find it hard to shut your brain off when your head finally hits the pillow, leading to hours of tossing and turning before finally settling in.
It shouldn’t come as much of a surprise that most Americans report feeling tired throughout the week,1 even after getting a full 7 to 8 hours of sleep per night. If you are dragging through the week, rest assured you’re not alone.
Sleep is essential for overall well-being, so it is super important that you get adequate rest at night.
If you’re not resting well, figure out why and then take steps to change. This article will explain how to achieve high-quality, restorative sleep, including scientifically proven methods and emerging trends.
To understand the importance of restful sleep, it helps first to understand the sleep cycle and how sleep affects your overall health.
While you sleep, you go through different sleep stages.2 There are 4 different stages of sleep: the first 3 stages are considered non-REM sleep, and the fourth stage is REM sleep.
Each stage of sleep is unique and important in its own way. For this reason, it is crucial that you cycle through all stages of sleep during the night. When sleep gets interrupted, or you’re not resting for long enough, you may lose out on specific stages of sleep.
Sleep is essential for your mental health.3 Adequate sleep helps with mood regulation, cognitive function, and productivity.
While you’re sleeping, your brain processes new information and forms memories. This helps to clear the way for you to learn more in the following days.
There are a lot of misconceptions surrounding sleep. Some common sleep myths are listed below.
Some people believe that more sleep is always better than less sleep. This is actually not true. Although it is important to get a full night of sleep, the exact amount of sleep you get matters less than getting good quality sleep.4
You may stay asleep for 7 to 8 hours, but if you’re not falling into a deep enough state of sleep or are not going through all the sleep cycles, you will still wake up feeling tired.
Also, it is possible to sleep too much. It isn’t typically necessary for you to need more than 9 hours of sleep to feel rested.5
Sleep debt occurs when you do not get adequate sleep over multiple days. Over time, the amount of sleep lost adds up.6 Some people believe you can “repay” your sleep debt or catch up on lost sleep, while some researchers argue this isn’t the case.
Research states that while you can make up for some lost sleep, you can never truly catch up. It can take up to 4 days7 to make up for one hour of lost sleep.
So, if you’re losing out on sleep consistently or losing many hours at a time, it would take a very long time to truly make up for your lost sleep. Simply taking one nap or sleeping extra on the weekends will not be enough.
There is more to restorative sleep than just logging a certain amount of hours. Ensuring that you’re getting high-quality sleep is essential as well.
If you sleep for 8 hours and still wake up feeling tired, then you’re probably getting poor-quality sleep.
Sleep quality has four categories8:
Many different factors can influence sleep quality.
Sleep hygiene involves habits and practices that help to encourage high-quality sleep on a regular basis.11 Practicing good sleep hygiene can ensure that you fall asleep faster and stay asleep.
To practice good sleep hygiene, try the following:
Modern approaches to sleep, such as sleep apps and gadgets, can sometimes be helpful for getting adequate rest.
Sleep apps such as Calm and Headspace can offer guided meditations to help you quiet your mind before it’s time to sleep.
Sleep wearables like the Oura Ring track your sleep patterns to give you data on how well you’re sleeping and help you see how your sleep changes as you alter your routine.
Advanced Sleep Techniques
If you’ve tried taking your own steps to improve your sleep and they don’t work, you may need to consult a professional. The following are some advanced sleep techniques:
Cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia (CBTi) is a psychological approach to treating insomnia.12 The exact methods used will vary based on your unique needs. In general, CBTi aims to help with your bed being a cue for sleep and weakening it as a cue for wakefulness.
This could mean that you avoid lying awake and reading before falling asleep, or if you wake up with racing thoughts, you may be encouraged to get up and sit in a different area until your mind is calm again.
Professional Help with Sleep
Seeing a sleep specialist for medical help with sleep is sometimes needed.
Your doctor may prescribe you sleep medications if needed. Sleep medications can be helpful as a last resort, but they come with some downsides, such as side effects and developing a tolerance or dependence.
Sleep is essential for your overall health. For this reason, keeping track of your sleep quantity and quality is important.
Restorative sleep comes down to more than just the amount of time you’re sleeping. High-quality sleep happens when you stay asleep without interruption and cycle through all four sleep stages.
Your sleep quality can be influenced by various factors, including your environment and lifestyle. If you’re having trouble with sleep, you’ll need to take steps to improve it to support your overall health and well-being. When needed, professional help can be an effective option in supporting sleep.